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    <title>FastCupid Blogs: Blogging away in Budapest</title>
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    <description>My thoughts in Budapest. Will they be any different from my thoughts in New York? We will see. Anyway, that is where I am right now.</description><item>
      <title>50 IS THE BEST AGE for a woman</title>
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      <description>They often say for a man there are so many more women to choose from as they age - and the choice gets narrower for women over time because men tend to choose younger partners. While this is certainly</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 19:03:58 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Saturday, Sunday, Tuesday</title>
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      <description>Z. called me up on Saturday at 8pm, saying he'd like to see me. We met at Cafe Hadik, a recently reopened literary cafe, famous for being frequented by many writers a century ago. It is huge and was f</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 14:37:34 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>"In a relationship with Z.B."</title>
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      <description>So it seems I went from single to being in a relationship with Z after knowing him for 10 days. I met him at a poetry reading that he went to because of his (rather unrequited) love for the poetess. T</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 17:02:50 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>The artist is REAL</title>
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      <description>I just have to straighten the record because I was bashing him in my last post. Not much changed but after I gave him the picture I wanted him to turn into a painting, he did it. The photo doesn't do </description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Sep 2011 17:48:42 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Update on new starving artist</title>
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      <description>I blogged about him A new starving artist. He sent me an email recently saying he already dreads winter (this, in June) because it costs so much to heat the house, being badly insulated.I invited him </description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 17:59:42 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Appearance at the workplace</title>
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      <description>My boss moved to another country where he heads now a new institute. We are all happy for him and he kept his group here for now. We have a lot of uncertainty and we all want to preserve our good grac</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2011 15:59:05 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Has anyone sucked your toes yet?</title>
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      <description>Well, if not, here is an introductory course for you. I spotted this story right here on Nerve. They probably wouldn't let me post the link but look up the story :Woman's leaked email chronicles her o</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 16:16:51 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Dating an ugly duckling</title>
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      <description>Now that is a dilemma. Yesterday I went to a literary event as a long-lost and now recovered friend, who has a publishing company invited me to a book event they just published and it is full of limer</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 13:39:15 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Artists still starving</title>
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      <description>...around me. I do my best to feed them occasionally, like this past week, when I had a birthday party, then 2 days later another smaller party from the leftover drinks and food from the fridge. A. is</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 17:49:52 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Fckng hpcrts</title>
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      <description>I can't believe it, my post to Velvet's topic, A question to those more experienced was censored. I told her about my personal experience that happens to me rather regularly not here but on other site</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2011 10:39:38 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>You're f'ckd up, I &lt;3 you, epilogue</title>
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      <description>I never told you the background info about the letter and poem I posted in You are fucked up, I love you. So the poem was written by me, actually for V-day, 2 years ago, to the musician B I blogged he</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 07 Feb 2011 11:38:23 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>That dreaded day coming up</title>
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      <description>What will you do peeps, single ones, I mean? With special mention of you, IQ? (Not because you are more single than others but, you know. The peeps comment.)As I have been officially single for a long</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 04 Feb 2011 16:40:00 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Members Or Bloggers, That is the Quest</title>
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      <description>I don't know about you but I am here mostly for the blogs. I mean, I would not mind meeting new people either (or new penpals, considering most people here are from the American continent) but I find </description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 08:37:46 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>A little makeup gets you notice a 100 times more</title>
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      <description>I was browsing in the bookstore trying to find some present for my nephew, who loves books. Instead, I ended up browsing in the psychology section about relationships. An expert, who has her own datin</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2010 13:59:11 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>You are fucked up, I love you</title>
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      <description>Hello,I got your name and contact info from a friend here in LA who used to live in Budapest and says you live there, too. I would like to make some friends there in literary circles before I move the</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 12:49:49 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>A new starving artist</title>
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      <description>I got a new friend. He wrote to me originally in March on a dating site asking me if I want to correspond. Sure, I said. So our correspondence started. He said he was a film director and he is not giv</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2010 16:28:09 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Artists and their inner Narcissus</title>
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      <description>Having come down with a cold I spent the last three days pretty much in solitude. I called my sister today and she wanted to know how my wacky poet who has been pursuing me for a while is. "Fine" I sa</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:24:27 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Spring, love, attitude</title>
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      <description>I am feeling like blogging again. Originally I just wanted to write a short note for myself but other people might use this computer some time and I wanted to keep this a secret. So, yes, what do I do</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 16:34:40 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Relationship expert advices</title>
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      <description>OK, I am a correspondent of the infamous Christian Carter (CC for short) mentioned in Gypsy's blog, Is This True about Men?, too, even if it is a one-way correspondence, he pretty much writes at least</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 12:58:29 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>Procrastination</title>
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      <description>About 10 years ago when I was living in New Haven, one gray Sunday afternoon I went to the newsagent buying a magazine (I was very fond of The New Yorker and Harper's Magazine at the time) adding that</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 12:38:36 -0800</pubDate>
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